Let go

还记得以前，当你还小的时候。

你如何大哭大闹？只是为了要你想要的东西？

为了不与快乐的事？

为了饿？

为了上厕所？

为了要引起父母的焦点？

还记得以前，当你还小的时候。
你如何因为一些小事而高兴？

因为有水玩？
因为有你要的玩具？
因为有你要的卡通？


现在的我/我们以经不会为这些小事而高兴/伤心。
可以教我如何放开心中不开心的事/伤心。
像小孩一般哭闹。
像小孩一般开怀大笑。
教我如何好不好？
憋在心里真的好难受。


The next half i going to blog about something very interesting i learn in church this weekend. Its a story, shall tell u all what i rmb.
Its veri meaningful. There was a Father and a Son went to the beach.
The Son start to pick up shells on the seashore.Some are fregmented.
As they have being washed to and fore from the seashore.
And they start to walk and walk.
The son just simply Pick up the shells and collect and collect.
Suddenly the father saw something very interesting in sight.
It was a starfish at somewhere far but still in sight.
The Son was very excitied when the father told him.
So the Boy just ran towards the starfish which is still in the water.
Then the Father observed him.
Going into the water bending down.
Then retreated back.
The father said: "Go Boy, what are you waiting for?"
So The Boy went back to the water again.
And retreated back again.
The father was curious and asked again the same qns.
Then the son pick up his courage and went ahead again.
And he retreated back again.
This time the father was very curious and angry.
And went toward the boy and asked him why did he retreated.
He showed his father his hand.














The boy's hand was full of this shell and thus cannot go and reach for the starfish. Its like in our life. we have things which we think are Good and we just keep in our fist, scared to lose it. The things in our hands might be Good but might not be the BEST! So at times if need to let Go and Throw something aside, if need be just do it!




Vivian i know you can alright. I know u
can be a strong girl! Somethings if need to let Go just let go. Or not we might miss the best/better ones. Need to be learn the boy in this pic. Throw it away!! I know after this period of time, u can be stronger! Hang on!